Lost Love: Found Myself
I have had the privilege of loving and being loved by so many wonderful souls in my life.Those of you who have lived long enough would know that this also means that I have inevitably lost love a thousand times over, if not more.You can’t avoid the heartache without also leaving out the love! — Roscoe Winston, Dr. Strange Beard by Penny ReidI think there’s a learning curve after losing your love. First and foremost, you crash and burn. The hurt may seem like it would take yo…
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2024: The Year of Letting Go!
Letting go used to be a foreign concept for me, until I realised—the baggage I was carrying became too heavy and started breaking me bit by bit.If you are someone who doesn’t get bothered by things, people, or life in general, then you must be a pro at letting go. You may not gain anything from reading this blog, but you may be able to help others by commenting any insights you might have about the art of letting go.However, if you are someone like me (who is afraid of letti…
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Losing Hope and Burning Dreams
It is said that love endures all things, bears all things, believes all things…maybe this is true.But.What about trust? What about hopes and dreams?These mighty yet fragile things require constant protection and nurturing. Something that is available in plenty in a healthy relationship. However, when little things start going south, these essential elements slowly chip away.When words and actions start to disagree with each other, trust goes out the window. When you lose tru…
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Somebody That I Used to Love
Mujhse pehli si mohabat mere mehboob na maang. — Faiz Ahmed FaizPast:I have survived several heartbreaks.Why did I get addicted to you?Hormones? Maybe not. I remember deciding to fall crazy in love.I loved your raw core & enjoyed the crooked edges.To me, you were extremely charming.I saw your need for me. I was there. You left. I waited. I broke down. I left. You were scared. You came back. It was over. I thought I would never recover. My heart won’t be whole again. I bui…
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My Dear Best Friend…
As I am growing up, I am coming to realise that everyone around me, the people I held dear to me and never wanted to let go out of sight, are growing up as well. We all are branching out and going our own separate ways.I have always been a ‘quality over quantity’ kind of person, thus, I have a limited number of friends. A few friends who are scattered across the world and are usually occupied in their own lives. Some friends don’t even talk anymore, while some keep making un…
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Pouring Your Heart Out!
If you poured your heart out, would they listen to you. If they listened, would they care enough to do something about it?When you are pouring your heart out, it’s not elegant. It is raw and messy and feels somewhat gooey as well.It no longer feels like a cathartic experience. Now it feels like a door opened and everything you held dear in your heart bled away in the abyss of nothingness.You are scared that you would get hurt. Is this relationship doomed?Why is your problemo…
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Repeat After Me: Love Is Patient! Love Is Kind!
…love bears all things, believes all things, endures all things!—First Corinthians 13:7 Some people (who are in love) often express their need for their partner. However, some others folks in love refuse to believe that someone else could be essential for them in order to exist. I have been a bit of both and I still keep jumping from one side to the other.I know that it is possible to survive without someone you love. But is mere survival enough? Well, you don’t always get a …
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A guide: How to find good people and keep them
Having found some gems in my life I think I may be able to shed some light on the matter. I have amazing friends who I dearly love and they love me back.We are creatures of love, we need to be surrounded by people we love and desire and vice versa, otherwise we may end up demotivated and depressed.Table of Contents Why does every other person keeps on complaining about not having good friendsBeing blessed with amazing friends, I found it strange when I met new people most …
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